
Most women try to hide it:
head down, avoid eye contact, stop talking, escape to the toilet
… while thinking:
“Bet I look awful…
people will notice…
my colleagues will think I’m incompetent.”
It can feel overwhelming in the moment,
but the first steps that help are often simple.
Breathe: in 4, out 6 (repeat 5 x)
Drop shoulders + unclench jaw
Cool points: wrists/neck/inner elbows (30–60 seconds)
Swap your thoughts. Instead say: “This will pass. I can cope.”
What Helps Hot Flushes is a calm, step-by-step 6-week online plan to reduce hot flush intensity, manage night sweats, and improve sleep quality — especially helpful if HRT isn’t suitable or isn’t your choice.

Learn why stress can narrow your thermo-neutral zone and what widens it again

Identify your triggers and use quick fixes (so you stop guessing)

Use CBT tools to change thoughts/ behaviours that intensify flushes

Follow the sleep and night sweat lessons to improve overall sleep quality
For less than the cost of 1-hour therapy
with a menopause psychotherapist

Your sleep is being interrupted and you wake up exhausted
You feel anxious about flushes happening in public or at work
You've tried 'all the things' and nothing has really worked
You want a natural approach because HRT isn't an option (or isn't your choice)
Handle a flush in the moment so it feels less frightening and disruptive
Understand your triggers and patterns in a simple, non-obsessive way
Calm the nervous system and reduce the “flush panic” spiral
Support better sleep with a bedtime routine (including night-sweat strategies)
Build a maintenance plan to stay on track when life gets busy
A clear week-by-week structure so you always know what to do next
Guided video lessons by Henriette O’Bryan, menopause counsellor
Downloadable worksheets and trackers (flushes, triggers, and sleep)
A final “keep going” plan so your progress doesn’t fade after week 6
Lifetime access so you can revisit the tools whenever you need them
If hot flushes are disrupting your
sleep, confidence, and daily life - you're not alone.
I want you to know this:
you're not failing.
Your body is changing - and you just need the right tools,
delivered step by step, without overwhelm
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